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Break Free From Unhealthy Relationship Patterns

8-Day Women's Only Retreat in Greece

Postponed - New Dates TBA

"Relationships are mirrors. They mirror the parts within us that still need to be healed." Cassandra Michael 

Boundaries

Self-Love

Authenticity

Manifestation

This retreat is perfect for you if...

~ You identify as being an empath or highly sensitive. 

~ You have a history of attracting partners who are emotionally unavailable, narcissistic or do not treat you with the love and respect you deserve.

~ You feel tired of always attracting the same type of relationship that just leaves you feeling disappointed, hurt and depleted.

~ You feel like you are walking on eggshells in your relationships and can't fully be yourself.


~ You have difficulties in identifying what your needs are and honouring them.

~ You find it hard to set healthy boundaries and try to avoid conflict at all costs.

~ You give 110% and then are left disappointed and hurt when your efforts are not reciprocated.

 

~ You loose yourself in relationships because you feel you have to be different or adapt, in order to be loved.

~ You find it hard to let go, trust and be vulnerable. True intimacy is challenging. 

~ You feel uncomfortable in speaking your truth. You fear rejection, criticism and not being liked.

~ You engage in people pleasing , feel low on energy and depleted because you cater to the needs of others, instead of your own.

You will leave this retreat feeling...

Free

Empowered

Connected

Hopeful

You will...

- Identify the main reason why you tend to attract unhealthy relationships (Only what we are aware of can we change!)

- Uncover and reprogrammed limiting beliefs connected to this pattern, by releasing suppressed emotions and trauma. 

- Fully understand the empath dynamic in relationships and how to avoid similar relationships in the future (red flags, body awareness etc.)

- Develop a strong sense of self and learnt how to set healthy boundaries without guilt or shame.

 

- Stop giving your power away and let go of resentment and silent anger that usually is a bi-product of this

- Learn about the power of reparenting and how to cultivate self-love on a daily basis. 

 

- Rediscover yourself, your needs and reconnected with your authentic self. 

 

- Gain practical tools that you can use daily to practise self-love and heal childhood wounds.

- Get all the knowledge you need to practise conscious manifestation and finally attract a relationship where you feel loved, nurtured, supported and free (or improve an existing one).

How? 

Some of the modalities that we will be using are: 

  • Positive Psychology

  • Mindset Coaching

  • Shadow Work

  • EFT (tapping)

  • Inner Child Healing & Reparenting

  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

  • TRE (Tension, Stress & Trauma Release)

  • Yoga

  • Sound Healing

  • SOMA Breathwork

  • Meditation & Mindfulness

  • Creative Manifestation 

  • Women's sharing circles 

Location - Aegina Island

This 8-day Women's Only Retreat will be held on the beautiful Greek island of Aegina.  Aegina is conveniently located only 40 minutes from Piraeus port with the fast boat. The port is about 45 minutes from Athens International Airport by taxi. Boats leave to Aegina every hour and tickets can be bought on the spot. 

Aegina boasts a great number of sights and natural beauties, highlight of which is the famous Aphea Temple (500BC). It forms in fact an equilateral triangle with the Parthenon and the Temple of Poseidon at Sounion, the so-called “holy triangle” of the antiquity. For this reason the energy on the island is particularly special, and one of the reasons we choose this wonderful place to host our retreat.

 

To add to the mystical and healing energy of the island, In 1904, the  miracle healer and saint Agios Nektarios relocated to Aegina and transformed an abandoned monastery into his home and place of worship. To this day, his monastery  is one of the most visited sights on the island and thousands of people flock there every year to leave their healing requests. The energy present is undeniable. You will see for yourself! As part of the retreat itinerary, we will visit both these magical places. Apart from the historic sights you can enjoy beautiful beaches, majestic mountain landscapes, perfect weather and scrumptious greek food while hearing the crashing of the waves. 

Accommodation - The Estate

For our retreat we have rented the gorgeous Kokkino Kastro Estate. It is set on a hill 800m from the centre of the town, nestled in pistachio and olive trees covering an area of 22.000m2. It boasts luxurious brick houses, a traditional windmill, fully equipped kitchen, a huge pool, tennis court and various outdoor spaces for our workshops and activities. The beach is only a 5 minute ride from the Estate. 

 

Due to the size and setup of the estate, you can easily get some private time to integrate, recharge and relax. As empaths we know how important this is for you!  

Testimonials

*These are from a 2 day relationship workshop I hosted recently in Bali and Thailand.

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"Cassandra's workshop about breaking free from unhealthy relationship patterns was so well put together. She is so knowledgeable and professional, and at the same time, you feel very safe to share with her. She provided thought provoking questions to help us dig deeper, meditations and EFT, as well as a really safe space for us to share our challenges. I'd highly recommend working with her in a workshop or session if you get the chance to!"

Sabi from London

I was lucky enough to stumble across one of Cassandra's workshops in Ubud, right when I needed some guidance regarding my current relationship (thank you Bali magic!). We openly discussed our relationship issues and the deep-rooted causes for those issues. It was eye-opening! We meditated, we journaled, we connected. It was immensely healing and I resonated with a few of the souls there really deeply. I'd go as far as saying meeting Cassandra that day changed my life a little bit - my relationship, which I had been on the verge of ending - is now stronger than ever. Go redefine happiness with this woman!

Becky from Amsterdam

Your hosts

 

8 Day Itinerary

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Cassandra Michael

Positive Psychology & Mindset Coach (MSc)

I have been exploring topics related to psychology, personal development and spirituality for over 10 years. My mission is to help empaths take control of their emotional wellbeing, release limiting beliefs and cultivate self-love so that they can fully step into their power and have the relationships, career and life they desire.   

 

I have an MSc in Applied Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology from the University of East London and a Diploma of Personal Coaching from Kingstown College, Dublin. I am also a certified Pranic Healing and EFT Practitioner.

Rim Guermazi

Holistic Wellness Coach & Yoga Teacher 

You can sense my excitement for life from the moment you meet me. Yoga crossed my path and helped me develop awareness and a more loving relationship towards myself and others. My mission is to help others find peace, ease and contentment in their daily life. I truly believe we all have everything we need to transform our vision of ourselves, others and life in general. All starts from a place of self love. I help my clients pause, bring awareness to their life, question their thoughts and beliefs, trust their intuition and turn their ideas into a plan for a more aligned and fulfilling life.

 

I’m a certified yoga RYT400 teacher, meditation, massage, reiki, breath-work and TRE facilitator. As part of my practise, I also love incorporating sound healing and crystals, making each session a unique blend of different modalities from around the world.

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Day 1 - Connecting & Exploring

Sunday

Sep. 20

Sunday, September 20th is the start of the retreat. Check in starts at 15:00. We advise you to arrive between 15:00 - 19:00.  This day will be more casual, as arrival times might vary. We will give participants the time to relax after a long travel day and meet one another through various authentic relating games and setting the intention for the retreat. 

 

Please be on time for the Welcome Dinner which is at 20:00! 

Day 2 - Awareness & Identifying Limiting Beliefs

Monday

Sep. 21

Understanding attachment systems, red flags, trauma bonding and childhood dynamics, as well as the empath/narcissist dynamic.  During this day you will learn the psychology behind unhealthy/toxic relationships and create all the awareness needed so that you can identify and avoid these situations in the future. 

 

Our limiting beliefs attract people and situations to us. Here you will identify your own personal limiting beliefs that are connected to childhood trauma and are fuelling the cycle of unhealthy relationships.This will be an eye opening experience that will give you a clear understanding as to why you have been stuck in this pattern. 

Day 3 - Reprogramming Limiting Beliefs, Healing Childhood Wounds & Trauma

Tuesday

Sep. 22

Here we will start to reprogram the limiting beliefs and heal the trauma identified the previous day through inner child healing, EFT, TRE, shadow work, affirmations and sharing. 

This part of the healing process is fundamental, because we will create a "blank slate" and create the foundation necessary for healing and change. Group trauma release work can be very powerful. You will be able to relate with the limiting beliefs of other participants and the joint intention on working on these amplifies the result. This day will leave you feeling like you have released a heavy weight, you will feel free, liberated and truly ready to break the cycle of unhealthy relationships once and for all.

Day 4 - Self-Love, Self-Compassion & Reparenting

Wednesday

Sep. 23

How can we call in a loving and nurturing relationship if we don't feel deserving of one? Reparenting is the process of giving ourselves the love and affection our parents weren't able to: this compliments Day 3 and facilitates the healing process further. You will leave with concrete tools that will allow you to embody self-love and self-compassion on a daily basis, as well as learn the fundamentals for reparenting, which is connected to identifying our deepest needs and wants. Often as empaths, we have learnt to ignore them, because we are so focused on addressing other people's needs first. 

Today we will also have a field trip to the beautiful Temple of Aphaia and enjoy dinner and sunset at a traditional tavern by the sea.

Day 5 - Setting Healthy Boundaries, Authenticity & Vulnerability 

Thursday

Sep. 24

If you engage in unhealthy relationship patterns and identify as being an empath, I can imagine boundaries are a challenge for you. During day 5 we will look at the types of boundaries and I will guide you through a process that will give you the awareness and tools you need to set healthy and firm boundaries without shame or guilt. Boundary setting is interconnected with needs (Day 4), but also with showing up as our authentic self and daring to be vulnerable. We shy away from this because we fear rejection. So during Day 5 we will find the courage to lower our masks and be seen, and work on releasing this fear that has kept us small for so many years. 

In the evening we will have a natural body movement dance (ecstatic dance).

Day 6 - Forgiveness, Letting go of the past, Releasing Blame & Guilt

Friday

Sep. 25

When we hold onto blame and can't let go of the past, our hearts remain closed. When we are operating from a space of self-protection and we find it difficult to trust, we will never be able to have the depth, love and intimacy we desire in our relationships. On Day 6 we release all that does not serve us and we take courageous steps to open our hearts and love again. Whether you are in a committed relationship or single, this practise will help you to fully open up, to give and receive all the love you so deserve.  

Day 7 - Conscious Manifestation 

Saturday

Sep. 26

This is the last full day of our journey together. By this point you will feel like you have rediscovered yourself. You will feel free, hopeful and mostly importantly you will have realized that your are the creator of your reality. From this space, we place all our energy and intention into calling in the relationship we desire (or improving an existing relationship). We will create a vision board, get creative and I will show you the best tools you can use to raise your vibration and manifest what you truly want in life. Trust me. It works.

Day 8 - Closing Cacao Ceremony, Sound Bath & Check-Out

Sunday

Sep. 27

Our beautiful journey has come to an end. We will close the retreat with a sharing circle, cacao ceremony and sound bath, to open the heart and integrate all the learnings, growth and transformation. 

 

You will leave the space feeling empowered, rejuvenated, nurtured and free from the patterns that have been holding you back. You will have all the tools you need to continue your healing journey back home and you will have made some beautiful friends and connections in the process. 

 

Check-Out is at 11:00 

What's included in the 8 day retreat?

  • 7 nights of accommodation (access to acres of nature, a huge pool and tennis court)

  • 3-4 hours of group coaching workshops and teachings per day 

  • Daily yoga & meditation 

  • Rotating daily TRE, Breathwork and Sound Healing Sessions 

  • Breakfast, Lunch and Dinner (traditional Greek vegetarian/vegan food)

  • Water, tea, coffee, fruit and healthy smoothies 

  • Field Trip to visit the Temple of Aphaia and the Monastery of Agios Nektarios

  • Digital workbooks, manifestation journal and special welcome gift

  • Free access to my online 4 week meditation program “From Fear to Authenticity" 

Sample Daily Program 

 

08:00 - 09:00 Yin Yoga

09:00 - 09:30 Meditation/Pranayama (breathwork)

09:30 - 10:30 Breakfast

10:30 - 13:30 Group Coaching Workshop & teachings

13:30-14:30 Lunch

14:30 - 17:30 Free Time / Field Trip

17:30 - 19:00 TRE/Sound Healing/Workshop (it will alternate) 

19:30 - 21:00 -  Dinner 

What are the costs?

 

Shared room

€1700

Private room

€1950

*Flexible cancellation policies especially for these times! 

Optional Add-Ons 

 35/session (1h-1,5h) - Purchase onsite 

  • Massage (Thai, Deep Tissue)

  • Abdominal massage (Chi Nei Tsang)

  • Reiki

  • Crystal Healing

  • Personal Sound Healing

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The Packages 

 Private Room

€1950

Shared Room

€1700

Frequently asked questions

How many people will join the retreat?


This is a small intimate group; we have a max capacity of 12 pax.




What is not included?


Everything is included except flights, boat tickets and other transportation costs needed to get to Aegina Island and the Kokkino Kastro Estate. Alchoholic beverages and snacks are not included.




What is the Refund and Cancellation Policy?


Cancellation & Refund Policies: 1. If you cancel up until August 1st 2020 the deposit is refundable. From August 2nd 2020 onwards the deposit is non refundable. However this amount can be transferred to purchasing coaching services with me. 2. You may cancel your participation at any time provided that the cancellation is made to us in writing. You can send an email to cassandra@redefining-happiness.com. Cancellation will take effect from the day that the written request is received by us. 3. Once the retreat has commenced, no refund or part refund or unused portion of your retreat participation will be repaid in the event of cancellation by you. COVID Friendly Terms In the unlikely event that we have to cancel the retreat due to COVID related circumstances, we will refund to you all deposits and payments you have made (less credit card fees). We cannot however compensate you for airfare or travel costs incurred. To cover these risks, we highly recommend you purchase travel insurance. Read the full Terms and Conditions here




What should I pack?


The weather in Greece in September is still warm and lovely! Bring comfy summer clothes, a jumper for at night and of course your favourite bikini :) We will provide yoga mats and other props needed for the activities.




What food will you serve?


Upon reservation we will send you a questionnaire where you can let us know of any allergies and food preferences. By default the food will be home cooked vegetarian/vegan Greek cuisine.




How are shared rooms allocated?


If you wish to share a room with a friend just let us know and we will pair you up! If you are coming solo, room allocation will be done randomly.




What time should I arrive? What time is check-out?


Sunday, September 20th is the start of the retreat. Check in starts at 15:00. We advise you to arrive between 15:00 - 19:00. This day will be more casual, as arrival times might vary. We will give participants the time to relax after a long travel day and meet one another through various authentic relating games. Try and make it on time for the Welcome Dinner which is at 20:00! Checkout on September 27th is at 11:00 am




Should I get an insurance?


YES! We strongly suggest that each trip member purchase individual travel insurance for their trip. It can be a minimal expense for the benefits it provides. We suggest that you include the “cancel for any reason” option and a policy that includes medical coverage. The best way to protect yourself from any unforeseen circumstance is to purchase trip insurance. Travel insurance can protect you in case: - You cancel your participation in the retreat - Retreat is cancelled due to weather, natural disaster, political upheaval, war, or not enough participants to run the trip - lost or delayed baggage - medical expenses should you become ill or injured We recommend getting an insurance that includes "cancel for any reason" coverage. Here is an article (with some providers) on this: https://www.forbes.com/advisor/travel-insurance/cancel-for-any-reason/




What are the Payment Terms?


Payment Terms 1. A deposit of 50% of the total amount is required for your booking to be confirmed. 2. The remaining balance (50%) for the retreat is due August 20th the latest. A respective invoice will be sent out with a credit card link. If you do not settle the balance by August 20th, 2020 we reserve the right to give your spot to someone else.
3. From August 21st 2020 onwards bookings must be paid for “in full” at the time of booking.
4. We accept payment by Bank Transfer, TransferWise , Paypal or via Stripe (Visa /Mastercard/ Maestro). Please ensure that we receive the full amount for your retreat by the defined deadlines. Any shortfalls in payments will be charged upon check-in. Please note a fee of 4% will automatically be added to all credit card payments. Read the full Terms and Conditions here




How do I get there?


From Athens airport to Piraeus port, you have three modes of transportation to choose from, a public bus, a metro line and the standard taxis. Taking an Athens airport taxi is the fastest and most convenient transfer option, but costs 54-70€. A cheaper option is the bus (X 96) , which costs only 6€, but takes around 90 minutes. The final transfer option is the metro. This mode of transport costs 10€ one-way and takes around 85 minutes to reach Piraeus port. We advice taking a taxi as the most comfortable and fastest option. If you do this ask the driver to take you to the Gate for Aegina Island. From Piraeus Port go to Gate E8 (departures for Aegina). You can purchase a boat ticket on the spot. Boats leave every hour. You can see the timetable here. From Aegina Port you can take a short 5 minute taxi drive to Kokkino Kastro Estate. We will send the address and more details upon reservation.





CONTACT ME

Cassandra Michael 

Positive Psychology and Mindset Coach (MSc)

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